Diane von Fürstenberg

Claiming the Keys to Your Own Happiness

From this starting point, traditions old and new converge on one lesson: control what you can. Epictetus’s Enchiridion teaches that we suffer more from our judgments than events themselves, a stance echoed by Viktor Frankl’s Man’s Search for Meaning (1946), which locates freedom in our response. Modern psychology adds precision. Julian Rotter’s locus of control (1966) and Albert Bandura’s self-efficacy (1977) show that believing in one’s influence correlates with persistence, performance, and well-being. Self-Determination Theory (Deci and Ryan, 2000) further argues that autonomy is a basic need, and when it is satisfied, happiness rises. Thus, von Fürstenberg’s keys are not metaphors alone; they are measurable mindsets that tilt outcomes by shaping choices, effort, and resilience. [...]

Embracing Authenticity Without Seeking External Approval

Taking inspiration from history, trailblazers such as Rosa Parks and David Bowie acted without waiting for explicit acceptance. Parks’ refusal to relinquish her bus seat in 1955 catalyzed the civil rights movement, while Bowie’s genre-defying artistry reshaped cultural norms. Both lived authentically, demonstrating the transformative impact of self-permission. [...]

Make Yourself a Priority - Diane Von Furstenberg

This quote highlights the necessity of prioritizing one's own well-being. By making oneself a priority, individuals can ensure their mental and physical health are maintained. [...]