Releasing Unnecessary Weights to Welcome Tomorrow
Make room for the future by clearing one unnecessary weight from your shoulders right now. — Audre Lorde
The Call to Intentional Lightening
Audre Lorde’s invitation to “make room for the future” begins with a deceptively simple act: remove one unnecessary weight now. Rather than proposing a grand, distant transformation, she grounds change in a single, concrete decision in the present. This framing shifts the future from something that merely happens to us into something we actively prepare for, moment by moment, choice by choice. By starting with just one burden, Lorde emphasizes accessibility over perfection, signaling that liberation is built through manageable, deliberate steps rather than sudden, heroic reinventions.
Understanding What Counts as a ‘Weight’
To respond meaningfully, we must first ask what qualifies as a weight. Lorde’s broader work—such as “The Uses of the Erotic” (1978) and “Sister Outsider” (1984)—shows she is rarely talking about clutter alone; she points to psychic, emotional, and social loads that drain our life-force. These may include internalized shame, overcommitment to others’ expectations, or loyalty to roles that no longer fit. By recognizing that such invisible burdens can be just as heavy as physical possessions, her quote encourages an honest inventory: which obligations, beliefs, or relationships serve growth, and which quietly stunt it?
The Politics of Personal Burden
Lorde famously wrote, “Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation” (“A Burst of Light,” 1988), tying individual choices to broader systems of power. In this light, shedding an unnecessary weight is not mere self-help but a political act of refusal. Many of the loads we carry—like the expectation to be endlessly productive, agreeable, or silent—are imposed by racist, sexist, or capitalist structures. Therefore, letting go of even one such demand becomes a way of reclaiming autonomy. As we put down what was never truly ours to bear, we create space to participate in the world with clearer intention and less coerced compliance.
Making Space as an Act of Creation
Once we set a burden down, the resulting emptiness is not a loss but an opening. Lorde’s language of “making room” suggests that the future needs literal and figurative space in which to unfold. Just as an artist clears a table before beginning a new work, we clear psychic and emotional space before new possibilities can take form. This process can feel unsettling, because we are often more familiar with our weights than with our potential. Yet the temporary discomfort of letting go is precisely what allows fresh relationships, ideas, and projects to take root where exhaustion and resentment once sat.
The Power of One Immediate Act
Crucially, Lorde anchors change in the word “now.” Rather than waiting for perfect timing or total clarity, she urges a single immediate action: remove one weight today. This emphasis on the smallest viable step mirrors therapeutic practices like behavioral activation, which show that modest, concrete moves can unlock broader shifts in mood and outlook. By choosing one specific email to decline, one apology to release, or one expectation to stop honoring, we experience a tangible sense of agency. Over time, these singular acts accumulate into a pattern of living that is less encumbered and more receptive to the life we are still growing toward.
Sustaining a Practice of Ongoing Release
Finally, treating this as a one-time event understates its transformative potential. While Lorde speaks of “one unnecessary weight,” the spirit of her work encourages continuous revision of what we carry. As circumstances change, so too does the definition of unnecessary. A commitment once rooted in survival may later become an impediment to thriving. By returning regularly to her question—what can I put down today?—we cultivate an evolving practice of self-honesty and courage. In this way, making room for the future becomes less about a distant horizon and more about the daily discipline of traveling lightly enough to meet it when it arrives.