Choosing Curiosity Over Fear to Spark Miracles
Create one small miracle today by choosing curiosity over fear. — Paulo Coelho
Redefining the Everyday Miracle
Paulo Coelho’s line invites us to see miracles not as lightning bolts from the heavens, but as subtle shifts in how we meet the day. Rather than waiting for an external rescue, he suggests that a single inner decision—to favor curiosity instead of fear—can change the quality of our experience. This reframes the miraculous as accessible and repeatable, something we can participate in rather than merely witness.
Curiosity as an Antidote to Fear
Fear narrows our vision, convincing us that threats are everywhere and possibilities are scarce. Curiosity, by contrast, widens that same field of view, asking, “What else might be true here?” When we turn toward the unknown with questions instead of alarm, we loosen fear’s grip. As psychologist Carol Dweck’s work on the ‘growth mindset’ shows, approaching challenges as opportunities to learn often reduces anxiety while increasing resilience.
The Power of One Small Choice
Coelho emphasizes “one small miracle” and “today,” underscoring that transformation need not be grand to be genuine. A single curious question—a willingness to listen before judging, to explore before rejecting—can alter the trajectory of a moment or conversation. Over time, these micro-choices compound. Just as daily habits gradually reshape the body, everyday curious responses quietly reshape the soul and the relationships around it.
Practical Moments to Practice Curiosity
Opportunities to choose curiosity appear in ordinary discomforts: a tense email, an unfamiliar person, or a looming change at work. Instead of reacting with automatic defensiveness, we might ask, “What can I learn from this?” or “What might this person be feeling?” In Viktor Frankl’s *Man’s Search for Meaning* (1946), he notes that between stimulus and response lies a space; Coelho’s invitation is to fill that space with questioning rather than panic.
From Inner Shift to Outer Impact
Although this choice begins inside, it rarely stays there. A curious response can de-escalate conflict, open creative solutions, or inspire someone else to soften their own fear. A manager who asks their team for ideas instead of issuing orders, or a parent who inquires gently instead of scolding, subtly changes the emotional climate. Thus, the “small miracle” is both personal and communal: by trading fear for curiosity, we quietly give others permission to do the same.