Choosing What Matters, Then Building It Joyfully
Decide what matters, then labor with a smile until it stands. — Søren Kierkegaard
—What lingers after this line?
One-minute reflection
Why might this line matter today, not tomorrow?
The Primacy of Deliberate Choice
Kierkegaard’s line begins with a demand that feels deceptively simple: decide what matters. In his philosophy, life is not primarily solved by accumulating information but by making commitments that shape who you become. This emphasis echoes his concern in works like *Either/Or* (1843), where the self is formed through choosing rather than drifting. Once that frame is set, the quote treats decision as the gateway to meaning: before effort becomes noble, it must be aimed. Without a chosen center—whether faith, craft, family, justice, or learning—labor can turn into restless motion, impressive in volume but thin in purpose.
From Clarity to Discipline
After deciding what matters, the next movement is labor—steady, sometimes unglamorous, and rarely instantaneous. Kierkegaard’s phrasing suggests that clarity is not the finish line but the starting signal; the real proof of seriousness is sustained work. In this way, the quote bridges ideals and practice, insisting that values must be enacted. This also implies a kind of discipline that resists modern impatience. If what matters is truly chosen, then repetition is not a burden but a method: daily drafts, rehearsals, repairs, conversations, and small corrections that gradually give an invisible commitment a visible form.
Why the Smile Matters
The smile is not decorative; it signals the spirit in which the work is done. Kierkegaard is not recommending forced cheerfulness but an inner consent—an ability to carry difficulty without becoming embittered. That smile suggests you are not merely complying with a task but participating in it freely, which aligns with his larger focus on inwardness and authenticity. Furthermore, joy here functions like endurance. When effort is guided by a chosen “why,” the “how” becomes more bearable, and even setbacks can be absorbed as part of the craft rather than taken as personal humiliation.
Making the Intangible Stand
The phrase “until it stands” points to completion and integrity: an idea becomes a structure, a principle becomes a habit, a calling becomes a body of work. It’s a pragmatic image—something standing can be tested, leaned on, and shared. In that sense, Kierkegaard ties meaning to embodiment, not mere intention. At the same time, “stands” suggests resilience. What matters is not only finished but able to remain upright against time, criticism, or fatigue. The labor is therefore not just to produce, but to produce something stable enough to carry the weight of your commitment.
A Cure for Aimless Busyness
Taken as a whole, the quote offers an antidote to frantic productivity. Many people work hard yet feel oddly hollow because effort is scattered across expectations they never truly chose. Kierkegaard reverses the order: first decide, then work—so that motion serves meaning rather than masking its absence. This progression also clarifies the difference between pressure and vocation. Pressure multiplies tasks; vocation narrows focus. Once focus is chosen, labor stops being a frantic attempt to prove worth and becomes a steady expression of what you have judged worthy.
A Small Practice for Everyday Life
In practical terms, Kierkegaard’s advice can be lived at a modest scale: choose one mattering thing, then work on it long enough for it to “stand” in some concrete form. A teacher might decide that patience matters and practice it until it becomes a reliable classroom presence; a writer might decide that honesty matters and revise until the piece can bear scrutiny. Crucially, the smile returns as a daily checkpoint. If the work breeds only resentment, it may signal misalignment—either the goal was not truly chosen or the method is unsustainable. When choice, labor, and inward consent align, progress feels sturdier, and what stands is not only the result but the self built along the way.