The Best Use of Life Is Love. The Best Expression of Love Is Time. The Best Time to Love Is Now. — Rick Warren
Created at: May 1, 2025
The best use of life is love. The best expression of love is time. The best time to love is now. — Rick Warren
The Centrality of Love in Life
Warren places love as the ultimate purpose of human existence. Similarly, in Leo Tolstoy's novella *The Death of Ivan Ilyich* (1886), the protagonist realizes, at the end of his life, that genuine connections and expressions of affection give life meaning, not professional success or material gain.
Time as the Greatest Gift
According to the quote, the most sincere way to demonstrate love is by giving someone our time and attention. This idea resonates with Gary Chapman's concept of 'quality time' in *The Five Love Languages* (1992), which highlights that presence and shared experiences are priceless tokens of care.
Living in the Present
Warren advocates for immediate action: love should not be delayed. In Charles Dickens's *A Christmas Carol* (1843), Ebenezer Scrooge learns the importance of expressing love and generosity now, not after the opportunity has passed. The lesson is that we cannot postpone connection; the present is all we truly possess.
Overcoming Procrastination in Relationships
People often wait for a ‘right moment’ to express their feelings or reach out to loved ones. This mindset can lead to regret, as illustrated in Thornton Wilder’s play *Our Town* (1938), where characters lament missed chances to connect and appreciate each other during their lifetimes.
Universal Relevance and Simplicity
Warren’s aphorism is universally relatable because everyone values love, time, and the present moment. Philosophers like the Stoics, especially Marcus Aurelius in *Meditations* (c. 180 AD), urged that we cherish the now and foster compassion, for ‘life is fleeting, and only what we do now endures.’