Soaring Above: Choosing Your Circle for Success
Created at: May 18, 2025
When you soar with the eagles, you won’t flock with the turkeys. — Joy Bell
The Power of Association
At its core, Joy Bell’s metaphor highlights the transformative influence of one’s social environment. Soaring with eagles symbolizes aligning with high-achieving, ambitious individuals, whereas flocking with turkeys implies remaining among those with limited vision or drive. This distinction underlines the idea that our company can either elevate or restrain our aspirations.
Rising to New Heights
Transitioning from association to aspiration, the metaphor encourages individuals to seek out influences that inspire growth and excellence. Historical figures such as Benjamin Franklin credited much of their progress to collaboration with like-minded, innovative peers. Franklin’s 'Junto Club,' for example, was a gathering of thinkers committed to mutual improvement and civic impact, illustrating the benefits of ‘soaring with eagles.’
Avoiding Stagnation and Mediocrity
Conversely, remaining within a flock that lacks ambition often leads to complacency. Psychological studies, such as those on social conformity by Solomon Asch (1950s), reveal how group norms can suppress individuality and reduce motivation. Without exposure to greater possibilities, one risks plateauing—mirroring the 'turkeys' in Joy Bell’s analogy who remain earthbound.
Intentional Community and Its Rewards
Recognizing the need for a supportive and aspirational community, many successful individuals purposefully seek out mentors and peers who challenge them. Contemporary entrepreneurs, like Oprah Winfrey, frequently cite the importance of surrounding themselves with driven colleagues as crucial to their ongoing growth. These relationships not only offer inspiration but also practical advice, creating a virtuous cycle of advancement.
Embracing the Courage to Change
Ultimately, moving from the safety of the flock to the heights of the eagles requires courage and self-belief. For many, the transition is neither easy nor immediate. Yet, as the analogy suggests, true transformation occurs when we commit to higher standards, shedding old limitations in favor of opportunity and vision. In doing so, we set ourselves on a path not just to personal success, but to becoming an ‘eagle’ who inspires others to rise.