Finding Happiness Through the Pursuit of Purpose
Created at: June 8, 2025
When you run after happiness, it eludes you; when you focus on purpose, it arrives. — Viktor Frankl
The Fleeting Nature of Pursued Happiness
Viktor Frankl’s observation highlights a perplexing phenomenon: the more desperately we chase after happiness, the more it seems to slip through our grasp. This elusiveness of happiness is not a new idea—ancient philosophers like Aristotle recognized that ‘happiness depends upon ourselves,’ yet warned against seeking it directly. Chasing pleasure or joy for its own sake often leads to disappointment, as the feeling is transient and hard to pin down when made the sole focus.
Purpose as a Gateway to Fulfillment
Building on this, Frankl, a Holocaust survivor and renowned psychiatrist, argued in 'Man’s Search for Meaning' (1946) that meaning, not happiness, should be our central aim. By committing to a cause or dedicating ourselves to something beyond mere self-gratification, we create a framework in which happiness can naturally grow. This pursuit of purpose galvanizes us during hardship and motivates us toward growth, transforming our sense of well-being.
Illustrations from Frankl’s Own Life
Frankl’s own survival in concentration camps serves as a profound illustration of his philosophy. He noticed that those prisoners who clung to a sense of purpose—whether it was hope of reunion with a loved one, faith, or professional duty—were better able to withstand unimaginable suffering. Their pursuit of something meaningful provided a resilient source of hope and, at times, an unexpected happiness even in the midst of despair.
Psychological Evidence for Purpose-Driven Living
Modern psychological studies reinforce Frankl's insights. Research on wellbeing—for instance, by psychologist Martin Seligman—shows that people who align their daily activities with their core values and overarching life goals report higher satisfaction and happiness. These individuals don’t chase happiness directly; instead, they experience it as a byproduct of meaningful engagement with life’s challenges and opportunities.
Redefining the Search for Happiness
Ultimately, the key lesson is that happiness is not an item to be hunted, but a blossom that grows out of living purposefully. By directing our attention toward contributing, learning, or loving, we often find ourselves unexpectedly content. Thus, rather than fixating on happiness, we may do well to ask ourselves: what deeper goal or value can we serve today? In answering that question, happiness may gently arrive—unbidden, yet deeply welcome.