Trust the Call That Knows Your Name
Created at: August 10, 2025
If a thing calls your name, trust that answering it is the point. — Frida Kahlo
An Invitation to Purpose
Kahlo’s line reframes purpose as a dialogue: something in the world calls, you answer, and the answering itself is the point. Rather than chasing a distant prize, she urges trust in the act of response. The call is personal—it knows your name—so the meaning emerges not from external validation but from fidelity to what uniquely addresses you. In that light, purpose becomes less a destination and more a practice of attentive courage.
Frida Kahlo’s Answer in Paint
To see how this lives in practice, consider Kahlo’s own story. After a catastrophic bus accident in 1925, she convalesced in a body cast while a mirror was mounted above her bed; painting became both lifeline and language. Self-portraits like The Broken Column (1944) made pain visible and purposeful, transforming suffering into form. Her diary pages—reproduced in The Diary of Frida Kahlo (1998)—brim with spines, roots, and mottos, showing an artist returning to the same insistent summons. Each canvas was an answer, not because it solved life’s riddles, but because it kept the conversation with fate alive.
What Science Says About Callings
Beyond biography, research on calling echoes this wisdom. Amy Wrzesniewski and colleagues (1997) found that people who construe their work as a calling report greater satisfaction and resilience, regardless of occupation. Building on this, Bryan Dik and Ryan Duffy’s Make Your Job a Calling (2012) links calling clarity to persistence, well-being, and prosocial motivation. Even broad studies of purpose predict health and longevity (Hill & Turiano, 2014). In short, answering a call organizes attention, stabilizes identity, and sustains effort—precisely because the process, not just the payoff, feels meaningful.
Separating Signal from Noise
Still, discerning a true call requires sifting signal from the ego’s noise. William James, in The Varieties of Religious Experience (1902), described a noetic feeling—an inward sense of rightness—that often marks genuine summons. Parker J. Palmer’s Let Your Life Speak (2000) adds a pragmatic test: listen for what your life reliably does well, then respond to that pattern. To operationalize this, entrepreneurial research on effectuation (Sarasvathy, 2001) suggests low-risk probes: small, time-bound experiments that let the call prove itself. If it persists, returns, and grows with practice, you are likely hearing the real thing.
Courage Against Resistance
Yet even with clarity, resistance rises. Steven Pressfield’s The War of Art (2002) names the inner force that stalls meaningful work precisely because it matters. Here, courage is less a feeling than a structure: deadlines, mentors, public commitments, and modest stakes that make action easier than avoidance. Like Odysseus lashed to the mast in Homer’s Odyssey (Book 12), we bind ourselves to the course we chose so we can outlast the sirens of distraction. Answering the call becomes a rhythm—show up, again, until momentum carries you.
From Self-Expression to Service
Ultimately, authentic calls widen from self to world. Kahlo’s Mexicanidad—her Tehuana dress, iconography, and political commitments—located her art within community and history; works like Self-Portrait on the Borderline Between Mexico and the United States (1932) place personal identity inside public tension. Likewise, many find that answering a call naturally creates value for others, whether through beauty, care, or insight. The point, then, is participation: by responding to what calls you, you help repair a corner of the world that was calling back all along.