Healing Yesterday By Choosing Courageous Action Today
Created at: August 11, 2025
We do not heal the past by dwelling there, but by acting in the present. — bell hooks
Present-Tense Healing in hooks’s Praxis
bell hooks links healing to praxis: the work of love enacted in daily life. Memory, she argues, is a guide but not a dwelling; to live inside old wounds is to keep them open. In All About Love (2000) and Sisters of the Yam (1993), she frames recovery as an ethical practice—setting boundaries, telling the truth, and building solidarity—that occurs only in the immediacy of now. Thus the past is honored through what we choose next, not by rehearsing what already happened.
From Rumination to Agency
Psychology underscores this pivot from dwelling to doing. Research on rumination shows that repetitive focus on distress predicts deeper depression and anxiety (Nolen-Hoeksema, 2000). By contrast, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy urges values-based, present-moment action even alongside pain (Hayes, Strosahl, and Wilson, 1999). Likewise, studies of posttraumatic growth find that purposeful steps—such as new commitments or service—can catalyze meaning after loss (Tedeschi and Calhoun, 1996). A small example: someone estranged from a sibling cannot rewrite childhood, but can make a clear apology today, or, if contact is unsafe, donate time to a mentoring program. Action does not erase the past; it reorients the future.
Engaged Pedagogy as Repair
hooks extends this ethos into the classroom through engaged pedagogy. Teaching to Transgress (1994) describes learning as a collective practice of freedom, where students metabolize pain by creating, not merely recounting. A course on race and gender might therefore culminate in an accessibility audit of campus events, followed by concrete policy proposals. In this way, testimony becomes design: the energy of remembrance is converted into structures that reduce harm for the next cohort. The lesson is seamless with her quote—education heals by making change in real time.
Community Repair and Restorative Justice
Communities also heal through present-centered accountability. Restorative justice reframes harm as a breach in relationships that can be addressed with dialogue, restitution, and commitments going forward (Howard Zehr, Changing Lenses, 1990). South Africa’s Truth and Reconciliation Commission (1996–2003), chaired by Desmond Tutu, paired testimony about atrocities with recommendations and amnesties contingent on full disclosure. Local circles mirror this: participants name impacts, agree on repair—like returning stolen wages or funding counseling—and set timelines. The past is witnessed, yet the instrument of healing is the action plan.
Embodiment and Mindful Presence
Because trauma imprints on the body, present-focused practices matter somatically. Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction teaches attention to breath and sensation to re-anchor safety now (Jon Kabat-Zinn, Full Catastrophe Living, 1990). Clinical accounts similarly show that regulating today’s sleep, nutrition, and movement supports nervous-system repair (Bessel van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score, 2014). Such embodiment does not deny history; rather, by stabilizing the present, it gives memory a container. Step by step—naming a boundary, pausing to breathe before replying—agency returns where rumination once ruled.
Re-authoring the Past Through Narrative Action
Finally, narrative work transforms memory through present authorship. Narrative therapy invites people to separate themselves from problems and re-author their stories through specific, witnessed acts (Michael White and David Epston, 1990). Even expressive writing, done for twenty minutes over several days, has been linked to improved health after upheaval (James W. Pennebaker, 1997). Rituals help too: drafting a letter never sent, planting a tree for a loss, or archiving documents to testify and move forward. In each case, healing traces hooks’s insight: we honor the past by the courageous sentences and steps we write today.