Claiming Space, Creating the Life You Imagine
Created at: September 6, 2025
Claim the room you are given and fill it with the life you imagine — Simone de Beauvoir
Freedom Begins With a Claim
At its core, Beauvoir’s exhortation is existential: freedom is not a possession but a practice. To “claim the room” names the first act of subjectivity—stepping out from passive circumstance into chosen project. In The Ethics of Ambiguity (1947), she argues that freedom only comes alive when it commits itself to shaping the world; the room we are given—be it a physical place, a role, or a sliver of time—becomes the stage where agency takes shape. Thus the imperative is not simply to accept a space but to author it.
From Room to World: Feminist Space
Building on this, the metaphor of a room carries a rich feminist lineage. Virginia Woolf’s A Room of One’s Own (1929) showed how material space and income enable women’s creative life, while Beauvoir’s The Second Sex (1949) exposed the social scripts that keep such rooms locked. To claim space, then, is both literal—keys, money, privacy—and political—challenging norms that police who may belong. In this light, a desk, a studio, or a schedule becomes more than logistics; it becomes the ground of personhood.
Imagination as Concrete Project
Yet claiming is only the beginning; the room must be filled with a lived vision. Beauvoir’s Pyrrhus and Cineas (1944) insists that projects give meaning by reaching beyond the self; imagination guides the reach. Artists often enact this principle: Maya Angelou described renting a sparse hotel room to write, stripping it of distractions so her imagined world could take precedence (Paris Review, 1990). In the same spirit, imagination does not float above reality; it furnishes it, chair by chair, sentence by sentence.
Designing Daily Practices
Consequently, the imagined life becomes durable through routine. William James’s Principles of Psychology (1890) underscores how habits scaffold intention; what we ritualize, we realize. Annie Dillard’s reminder—“How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives” (The Writing Life, 1989)—translates aspiration into schedule. A morning hour reclaimed, a table cleared of noise, a weekly gathering convened: these small architectures turn abstract freedom into a room that holds.
Power, Access, and the Work of Homeplace
Even so, not everyone is given a room on equal terms. Structural exclusions shape who can claim, and at what cost. bell hooks describes “homeplace” as a site of resistance where Black communities nurture dignity against domination (Yearning, 1990). Similarly, community gardens, mutual-aid fridges, and pop-up classrooms show how people carve breathing spaces amid scarcity. Here, claiming space becomes collective: a shared key ring that opens doors otherwise closed.
Ethics: Your Room and Others’ Freedom
For Beauvoir, freedom is ethical only when it wills the freedom of others (The Ethics of Ambiguity, 1947). Thus, to fill your room cannot mean annexing someone else’s. The life you imagine should widen the corridor—mentoring newcomers, crediting collaborators, designing with accessibility in mind. In practice, each project becomes a hinge: it swings open to invite others in, or shuts them out. The existential choice is daily and relational.
Continuity: Reclaiming, Reimagining, Renewing
Finally, rooms change—leases end, roles shift, seasons turn. The task is to reclaim and reimagine without ceasing. Jane Jacobs’s The Death and Life of Great American Cities (1961) shows how vibrant places are maintained through ongoing, small adjustments; so too with inner architecture. Periodic audits—What in this room serves the life I imagine? What must be removed or added?—keep freedom active. In this ongoing curation, the room becomes a living testament to the self you choose to become.