From Wishful Thinking to Willful Action
Created at: October 8, 2025
The most important thing in life is to stop saying 'I wish' and start saying 'I will'. — Charles Dickens
The Pivot from Wish to Will
At first glance, the line often attributed to Charles Dickens draws a clean boundary between passive yearning and active resolve: “I wish” waits, while “I will” moves. The pivot is subtle yet decisive—one replaces vague hope with a chosen direction and a personal pledge. In this shift, agency is not an abstract ideal but a verb-driven practice: to decide, to begin, to persist. Thus, the statement urges us to treat desires as drafts and commitments as the published work.
Dickens’s Lessons in Agency
Carrying this idea forward, Dickens’s narratives repeatedly stage the cost of wishing without working. In David Copperfield (1850), Mr. Micawber’s buoyant refrain—“something will turn up”—becomes a gentle satire of hope unaccompanied by effort, while David’s laborious self-making enacts the opposite ethic. Similarly, Great Expectations (1861) exposes how Pip’s lofty aspirations demand concrete deeds, not just dreams. Across these arcs, Dickens dramatizes a moral physics: outcomes orbit decisions, not daydreams.
What Science Says about Intention
If Dickens supplied the stories, modern psychology offers mechanisms. Research on implementation intentions shows that specifying an if–then plan—“If it is 7 a.m., then I will run”—significantly increases follow-through (Peter Gollwitzer, 1999). Moreover, Gabriele Oettingen’s work finds that unchallenged positive fantasizing can sap effort, whereas mental contrasting—naming a wish, envisioning the outcome, confronting obstacles, and drafting a plan (WOOP)—improves action (Oettingen, 2014). In effect, science converts “I will” from a slogan into a strategy.
How to Operationalize ‘I Will’
Consequently, turning resolve into results requires design. Translate aims into scheduled behaviors (timeboxing), pair new actions with existing routines (“After I make coffee, I will journal”), and precommit where possible—Odysseus binding himself to the mast in Homer’s Odyssey is the classic device. Reduce friction by preparing cues and materials the night before, and raise stakes with accountability partners or small financial commitments. Through these structures, “I will” becomes observable in calendars, checklists, and environments—not just intentions.
A Communal Promise, Not Just Personal
Beyond private resolve, Dickens ties will to social responsibility. In A Christmas Carol (1843), Scrooge’s transformation culminates in a pledge: “I will honour Christmas in my heart, and try to keep it all the year.” The phrase does more than announce a change in habit; it binds character to community. Likewise, our commitments gain traction when they serve others—showing up for a team, a cause, or a family—because shared stakes turn wavering wishes into upheld promises.
Resilience When Plans Meet Reality
Finally, “I will” is not a guarantee of smooth progress; it is a stance toward setbacks. A growth mindset treats obstacles as feedback loops rather than verdicts (Carol Dweck, 2006), while habit scholars note that small, consistent actions compound over time (James Clear, 2018). When a plan falters, we revise the loop—adjust the cue, shrink the step, renew the precommitment—and continue. In this way, willpower matures into willingness: the practiced readiness to begin again.