Steady Oars of Desire Toward Imagined Shores
Let your desires be the oars; row steadily toward the shore you imagine — Sappho
Desire as Propulsion
Sappho’s metaphor turns desire from a tempest into a tool: not a wave that tosses us, but the oars that move us. In the Aegean world she inhabited, sea travel demanded intention as much as strength; oars respond only when hands take hold. Thus the line urges us to harness longing as motive power, converting feeling into directed action. Rather than dismissing desire as unruly, it reframes it as disciplined energy.
The Shore You Imagine
From propulsion we move to destination: the imagined shore. Ancient ethics begins here. Aristotle’s Nicomachean Ethics (I.1) opens by noting that every action aims at some good; telos—an end—gives efforts coherence. Likewise, Homer’s Odyssey (c. 700 BC) casts Ithaca as a mental horizon that steadies Odysseus through storms. Visualization does not replace reality; it organizes it. By articulating the shore, we transform diffuse yearning into a navigable course.
Rowing Steadily, Not Wildly
Desire gives the stroke; steadiness gives the rhythm. Ancient triremes relied on crews keeping time under a caller (the keleustes), converting many arms into one motion. In the same spirit, Aristotle stresses that repeated acts form stable dispositions (hexis) in Ethics II.4. Even modest strokes accumulate when kept regular. Momentum, not explosion, carries the boat; and so routines—small, timed, and honest—turn aspiration into measurable distance.
Prudence in the Face of Storms
Yet desire without judgment can capsize the craft. Here the Stoics offer a pilot’s counsel: distinguish what is within the rower’s control from what belongs to the sea. Epictetus’s Enchiridion (c. 125 AD) urges attention to chosen responses, not to shifting winds. Seneca’s Letters (c. 64 AD) repeatedly invoke the helmsman who trims sails to conditions. Thus we keep the oars active while adjusting course—firm in will, flexible in method.
Sappho’s Intimate Agency
Returning to Sappho’s voice, desire is not abstract fuel but embodied urgency. Fragment 31 (“he seems to me equal to the gods…”) records trembling, heat, and loss of voice—signs of eros that could overwhelm. Yet this aphorism teaches a counter-move: take that intensity and give it handles. By inviting us to grip the oars ourselves, Sappho converts private rapture into public action, personal longing into navigational choice.
Modern Tools for Ancient Wisdom
Contemporary research echoes the poem’s craft. Goal-setting theory finds that specific, challenging aims increase performance (Locke and Latham, 1990/2002); implementation intentions—if-then plans—make strokes automatic under conditions (Gollwitzer, 1999). Mental contrasting (Oettingen, 2014) pairs the desired shore with likely obstacles to calibrate effort. Meanwhile, imagery studies suggest that rehearsing actions improves execution (Guillot and Collet, 2008). In combination, these methods turn desire into steady motion without losing its heat.