#Adversary

Learning Tolerance Through the Presence of Adversity

Building on this understanding, the Dalai Lama positions adversaries not as obstacles to peace, but as invaluable instructors. An ‘enemy’ may evoke frustration, anger, or fear, emotions that challenge our sense of self-control and patience. Yet it is precisely through grappling with these feelings that we learn the discipline and resilience required for genuine tolerance. In the Buddhist tradition, which deeply influences the Dalai Lama’s philosophy, outer conflicts are seen as opportunities for inner growth, echoing teachings found in texts like Shantideva’s ‘Bodhicharyavatara’ (8th century). [...]

A Wise Man Learns More from His Enemies Than a Fool from His Friends - African Proverb

A fool, on the other hand, is complacent and may only value the opinions of those who are friendly or flatter them. They may miss important lessons because they don't seek or listen to criticism or diverse viewpoints. [...]