And so the ethical invitation emerges: cultivate equanimity without dulling tenderness. Stoic counsel—attend to what is within control (Epictetus, Enchiridion)—aligns with Buddhist compassion that meets change with care (Shantideva, 8th c.). We acknowledge sorrow and joy as visiting weather, while we commit to reunion in spirit and practice. By pacing our hearts to the Moon’s calm pulse, we honor change without surrendering connection, sharing the same light even when paths diverge. [...]
