#Denial
Quotes tagged #Denial
Quotes: 3

Closing Eyes to Reality, Memories Keep Watch
Practically, integrating memory means transforming raw recollection into narrative and purpose. Dan McAdams’s The Stories We Live By (1993) argues that coherent life stories convert past pain into guidance, a process supported by journaling, ritual, and therapy. Exposure and EMDR can soften fear; meaning-making can reassign significance. In that spirit, Neruda often turned remembrance into lyric—love, exile, and sea coalescing into forms he could address. By giving memories a place rather than a veto, we honor their persistence without surrendering to it. Eyes may close, but when memory keeps watch, we can choose to see with intention. [...]
Created on: 8/10/2025

When Memory Outlasts Reality’s Closed Eyes
Finally, if we cannot shut memory, we can reshape our stance toward it. Evidence-based approaches—prolonged exposure (Foa & Kozak, 1986), cognitive models for PTSD (Ehlers & Clark, 2000), and expressive writing (Pennebaker, 1997)—work by revisiting memories safely, integrating context, and updating meaning during reconsolidation. Likewise, everyday rituals—journaling, conversation, mindful attention—create a hospitable space for recall. Thus, the path forward is not blindness but calibrated seeing: acknowledging memory’s persistence while crafting narratives that can hold it. Neruda’s line becomes guidance—feel what returns, then let it teach. [...]
Created on: 8/10/2025

Optimism and the Facade of Well-Being in Adversity
Ultimately, Voltaire’s skepticism invites us to embrace a mature form of optimism: one that coexists with discomfort and acknowledges struggle. Rather than insisting ‘all is well’ amid misery, authentic optimism seeks silver linings while validating pain. By doing so, individuals and communities cultivate resilience—not by denying darkness, but by shining a light within it. [...]
Created on: 6/11/2025