Equally important, those who have obeyed understand the human side of being led. They know how commands can inspire, confuse, burden, or humiliate, and that knowledge makes them more careful in the use of authority. A leader shaped by obedience is less likely to issue reckless demands because he remembers the cost of carrying them out.
This is why effective commanders in military, civic, or professional life often rise through ranks rather than appear above them. Their credibility comes not only from competence but from shared experience. Having once stood where others stand, they can lead with realism instead of abstraction. [...]