From that tension, the next step is learning to detect what your own pace feels like in real time. Often the body speaks first: shallow breathing, clenched jaw, sleeplessness, or a persistent sense of being “on edge” can be signs that you’re forcing yourself into an unnatural speed.
In contrast, honoring your rhythm may look surprisingly ordinary—taking a full lunch break, pausing before responding, or choosing fewer commitments. These small acts restore sensory awareness, and they gently shift you from performance mode into presence, where your actual needs become easier to hear. [...]