Abigail Van Buren
Abigail Van Buren was the pen name of Pauline Phillips, an American advice columnist who created the syndicated 'Dear Abby' column in 1956. She provided practical, often wry counsel on relationships and everyday problems; the quote reflects her emphasis on personal responsibility and habit change.
Quotes by Abigail Van Buren
Quotes: 2

Overcoming Bad Habits Through Conscious Effort
Finally, while the ‘undo-it-yourself’ journey demands effort, it also celebrates victories, big or small. Behavioral scientists emphasize the importance of rewards and self-recognition in reinforcing progress. Whether tracking days of success or sharing milestones with supportive friends, each step away from a bad habit builds confidence for future challenges. In this way, the process of self-change is not just a burden, but an empowering, transformative undertaking. [...]
Created on: 6/27/2025

Your True Character Is Most Accurately Measured by How You Treat Those Who Can Do Nothing for You - Abigail Van Buren
From a philosophical standpoint, many great thinkers argue that ethical behavior is most virtuous when it is motivated by compassion rather than material incentives. This quote aligns with that perspective, challenging people to consider their intentions. [...]
Created on: 11/5/2024