Wong’s framing also suggests that laziness isn’t merely a character flaw; it has persuasive logic. Laziness can be a way to conserve energy, avoid discomfort, or sidestep the risk of discovering you’re not as good as your ambition imagines. In that sense, it’s often less about idleness and more about emotional protection.
Meanwhile, ambition can be both inspiring and punishing. It supplies drive, but it can also raise the bar so high that starting feels like stepping into judgment. When those two forces meet, the “fight” is really a negotiation over safety versus growth. [...]
