Changing What We Can No Longer Accept

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I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change. I am changing the things I cannot accept. — Ang
I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change. I am changing the things I cannot accept. — Angela Y. Davis

I am no longer accepting the things I cannot change. I am changing the things I cannot accept. — Angela Y. Davis

Inverting Resignation Into Resolve

Davis’s line pivots on a deliberate reversal. Where the Serenity Prayer asks for serenity to accept what cannot be changed (Niebuhr, c. 1930s), she replaces resignation with agency. The result reframes discomfort not as a private burden to endure but as a public mandate to act. In this way, the quote becomes less a quip than a strategy. It instructs us to scrutinize which limits are truly fixed and which are socially constructed—and therefore moveable. The move from acceptance to intervention is the hinge on which her broader political philosophy turns.

A Life Rooted in Movement Struggle

This resolve is not abstract. Davis’s own history—arrested in 1970, acquitted in 1972 amid a global “Free Angela” campaign—illustrates how collective pressure can transform what authorities present as inevitable. Her An Autobiography (1974) recounts how solidarity networks, legal advocacy, and international attention altered the terrain of possibility. Moreover, Davis’s academic work never drifted far from organizing. Trained by critical theorists like Herbert Marcuse, she brings analysis to the street and the classroom alike, showing that ideas become forceful when they circulate through movements.

Reframing the Boundaries of the Possible

Building on that experience, Davis urges a redefinition of what society deems tolerable. Women, Race & Class (1981) exposes how racism and sexism interlock, implying that any politics content to “accept” partial justice simply reproduces hierarchy. Likewise, Are Prisons Obsolete? (2003) challenges the “common sense” inevitability of cages. Thus, the quote functions as a diagnostic tool: if a condition persists only because we have normalized it, then the task is not stoic acceptance but political redesign. Naming the unacceptable becomes the first step in undoing it.

From “I” to “We”: Collective Power

Crucially, the statement’s first-person voice invites a collective echo. History shows how shared refusal makes change: the Montgomery bus boycott (1955–56) converted private indignation into coordinated economic pressure, while ACT UP (founded 1987) turned grief into policy shifts on HIV/AIDS through direct action. In this light, “I am changing” signals the start of a broader “we are organizing.” The unacceptable is rarely altered by solitary will; rather, movements translate individual conviction into structures capable of shifting institutions.

The Abolitionist Lens in Practice

Davis’s abolitionism offers a concrete program for change. Instead of accepting mass incarceration as public safety, she and peers like Ruth Wilson Gilmore argue for investments that prevent harm—housing, healthcare, education—and for alternatives like restorative justice (see Gilmore’s Golden Gulag, 2007). Pilot efforts in violence interruption and bail reform illustrate how reframing problems yields new solutions. Accordingly, to “change the things we cannot accept” is to redesign systems at their roots, not merely renovate their surfaces. Abolition is less a demolition than a blueprint for life-affirming institutions.

Courage, Care, and Sustainable Resistance

Finally, the quote calls for courage paired with care. Audre Lorde’s “The Transformation of Silence into Language and Action” (1977) reminds us that speaking and acting carry risks, yet the cost of silence is greater. Sustainable change requires communities that protect one another while pressing forward. Thus, the arc from refusal to reconstruction is both ethical and practical. By tending to people as we transform policy, we ensure that the world we are building already embodies the values we refuse to live without.