Suffering can widen your horizon; choose to see the open road. — Viktor Frankl
Frankl’s Invitation to Reframe Pain
Viktor Frankl’s line treats suffering not as a verdict but as a turning point: pain can enlarge what you notice, value, and dare to hope for. Rather than romanticizing hardship, he points to a practical shift in stance—what you endure can become material for meaning. From there, the second clause—“choose to see the open road”—adds agency. The horizon widens, but you still decide where to look. In Frankl’s terms, even when circumstances are fixed, the attitude you adopt can remain a space of freedom.
Horizon-Widening Through Contrast and Clarity
Suffering often sharpens contrast: the ordinary becomes precious, and the nonessential falls away. In this way, it can widen your “horizon” by clarifying priorities—who matters, what is worth time, and what integrity costs. Frankl develops this theme in *Man’s Search for Meaning* (1946), describing how extreme deprivation forced many to confront what could not be taken from them: inner orientation and purpose. As that clarity emerges, the world can feel simultaneously harsher and more legible. The widened horizon is not more comfort; it is more truth, and with it a broader sense of what life can still ask of you.
The Open Road as a Metaphor for Agency
The “open road” suggests possibility, but also movement—an emphasis on direction rather than destination. After suffering, life can feel like a narrowed corridor of loss; Frankl counters with an image of space returning, where choices reappear in small, realistic forms: a conversation you can initiate, a habit you can restart, a value you can live today. Consequently, the metaphor is less about escapism than about orientation. You do not deny the wound; you refuse to let it monopolize the map. The road is “open” when you acknowledge constraints yet still select a forward-facing angle.
Choosing Meaning Without Denying Reality
Frankl’s broader philosophy—logotherapy—argues that meaning is discovered through responsibility: to a task, to another person, or to a stance toward unavoidable suffering. This helps explain why “choose to see” is central. It is not positive thinking; it is disciplined attention to what remains possible. In practice, this might resemble a person who, after illness, cannot return to an old career but commits to mentoring others in the same field. The suffering did not become good, yet it widened the horizon by revealing a different way to contribute.
Growth That Comes With Cost
Although people sometimes describe becoming “stronger” after adversity, Frankl’s framing is more sober: growth may occur, but it arrives with grief, scars, and changed expectations. The widened horizon can include empathy for others’ pain, patience with ambiguity, and a deeper appreciation for moments of normalcy. At the same time, this perspective guards against the pressure to turn every hardship into a triumph. The point is not to prove suffering was worthwhile; it is to prevent it from being meaningless. That distinction keeps the open road honest rather than sentimental.
Practicing the Turn Toward the Horizon
To “see the open road” can be practiced in small choices: naming what you can control today, identifying one value you will embody, and taking one action that aligns with it. Over time, these modest commitments rebuild a sense of movement, which is often what suffering most disrupts. Finally, Frankl’s line implies that horizons widen gradually. The road does not appear all at once; it is revealed as you walk it. In that steady motion, suffering becomes not the end of the story, but the terrain from which a larger view can be earned.