Moving Forward: Embracing Growth Over Arrival
Created at: August 8, 2025
Forward is a direction, not a destination. — Clarissa Pinkola Estés
Redefining Progress
Clarissa Pinkola Estés’ quote invites us to fundamentally reconsider our understanding of progress. Rather than viewing life as a series of endpoints to be reached, Estés encourages an appreciation for the act of moving itself. Forward, then, becomes about orientation—a willingness to continue evolving and advancing, regardless of where one ultimately ends up.
From Destinations to Journeys
This shift from destination to direction resonates in adventure narratives throughout history. Odysseus in Homer’s ‘Odyssey’ (8th century BC) is celebrated not only for reaching Ithaca, but for the perseverance and lessons cultivated along his protracted journey. The story illustrates how continual forward movement builds resilience and wisdom, even when the final destination remains uncertain.
Growth Through Uncertainty
Emphasizing direction over destination naturally fosters a mindset open to change and adaptation. In her seminal work ‘Women Who Run With the Wolves’ (1992), Estés herself explores how embracing the unknown and trusting the process nurtures authentic self-growth. Each forward step, though sometimes shrouded in ambiguity, becomes an opportunity to learn and develop.
Psychological Benefits of Process Orientation
Modern psychology reinforces this approach, finding that individuals who focus on ongoing progress tend to experience greater fulfillment and lower anxiety. Carol Dweck's concept of a ‘growth mindset’ (2006) highlights how valuing effort and incremental improvement, rather than fixed outcomes, promotes resilience. Forward, therefore, is less about arrival and more about persistent, hopeful movement.
Cultivating a Forward-Facing Life
Ultimately, adopting a direction-oriented perspective helps us face setbacks without discouragement. Setbacks, detours, and surprises are not failures, but part of the path. As Viktor Frankl observed in ‘Man’s Search for Meaning’ (1946), meaning is often found in movement itself. By embracing forward as a way of living, we allow purpose and growth to constantly unfold, regardless of precise destinations.