Blossoming Through Trust in Life’s Every Moment
Created at: June 25, 2025
To blossom means to trust yourself, to trust life, to trust that there is an opening in every new moment. — Clarissa Pinkola Estés
Trust as the Soil for Personal Growth
Clarissa Pinkola Estés invokes the metaphor of blossoming to emphasize that personal growth requires foundational trust. Just as a flower needs fertile soil to bloom, individuals need to believe in themselves, in the ebb and flow of life, and in the possibilities each moment offers. This trust enables us to break free from fear and uncertainty, preparing the ground for our authentic selves to emerge.
Embracing Uncertainty and Possibility
Building on trust, Estés highlights the idea that each new moment contains an ‘opening’—an invitation to growth, change, or understanding. Life by its nature is unpredictable, but when we trust in its unfolding, we become more open to discovery. This echoes the teachings of mindfulness traditions, where present moment awareness is seen as a gateway to transformation (e.g., Jon Kabat-Zinn’s work on mindfulness, 1990).
The Role of Self-Trust in Flourishing
Central to Estés’ vision is self-trust: believing in our own abilities and resilience. Without this, even the richest soil cannot yield blossoms. This concept mirrors Carol Dweck’s research on the ‘growth mindset’ (2006), showing that those who trust their capacity to learn and adapt are more likely to thrive. Thus, self-trust is both a prerequisite for and a product of blossoming in life’s garden.
Finding Opportunities in Every Challenge
Estés also reminds us that every moment, even the challenging ones, holds an ‘opening.’ Historical moments of adversity often spur unexpected growth—consider how Helen Keller’s trust in herself and her teacher enabled her to communicate and inspire millions. By viewing difficulties as opportunities rather than obstacles, we foster resilience and hope, even during life’s darkest seasons.
Cultivating Trust Through Everyday Practice
Finally, the process of blossoming through trust isn’t a single leap but a series of small, daily choices. Practicing gratitude, keeping promises to ourselves, and reflecting on past triumphs all reinforce this cycle of trust. Over time, these acts accumulate, much like petals on a flower, revealing the full beauty of a life lived openly and courageously—true to Estés’ guiding vision.