#Perfectionism

How Perfectionism Protects Us From Growth

Brené Brown’s metaphor turns perfectionism into something heavy, defensive, and exhausting: a twenty-ton shield. At first, that shield seems useful because it promises protection from criticism, failure, and shame.

Why Progress Matters More Than Perfection

At its heart, the quote argues that movement is more valuable than immaculate intentions. “Progress over perfection” rejects the habit of waiting for flawless conditions, while “done beats perfect every time” reminds us...

Craftsmanship as a Private Standard of Excellence

William Morris defines craftsmanship not as mere skill, but as an act of resistance against the acceptable average. From the beginning, his words suggest that mediocrity often arrives disguised as practicality: good enou...

Healthy Striving Versus the Trap of Perfectionism

Brené Brown’s statement turns on a subtle but life-changing contrast: healthy striving asks us to grow, while perfectionism demands that we prove our worth. At first glance, the two can look similar because both involve...

Choosing Life Over the Slow Death of Perfectionism

At first glance, Anne Lamott’s line sounds sharp, but its force comes from accuracy: perfectionism rarely ruins us in one dramatic collapse. Instead, it works through accumulation—tiny hesitations, private shaming, delay...

How Perfectionism Silently Destroys Dreams and Joy

At first glance, perfectionism can look like discipline, ambition, or high standards. Yet Beth Kempton’s quote reframes it as something darker: a form of fear that disguises itself as virtue.

Why Perfection So Often Turns Into Dullness

Maugham’s remark begins with a sharp paradox: what appears most admirable may also be least engaging. Perfection promises polish, balance, and control, yet those same qualities can smooth away surprise, tension, and indi...